I didn't want to be the mom that had her kid on a schedule. When we had Lily we were very much into raising her so she could just go with flow, do what we do, and not have set times for things.

She decided she wanted a schedule...and set one for herself at 2 weeks.

Now we have a pretty set daily schedule of meals, naps, and bedtime. So when Sophia came along I assumed we would put her on the same schedule.

She decided she hates schedules....at 4 months she has none.

Go figure. My kids already do the opposite of what I want.